“This is because we are more authentic. Whether we realize it or not, we are all seeking authenticity. It’s our nature to do so.
Whenever many people are attracted to one particular individual, we think it’s because of their appearance, behavior, or life situation. However, it’s seldom because of these external attributes. Rather, it’s because of their unique expression of Presence. The suppressed awareness of Presence within us seeks expression and is attracted to anyone who expresses their Presence. Like attracts like.
Presence, even when it’s suppressed, is attracted to Presence. Therefore, the more present we are, the more attractive we appear to others. We appear to have what they seek, even though they don’t consciously realize they are seeking it. We often hear people describe this experience of magnetism in terms of someone being “larger than life.” They may also state that a person has “such great presence.”