The second video lesson as part of his 3 part video lessons on “theory of awesomeness” is out. Watch it here.
I took some notes.
“Create a Vision that make the old problems obsolete.”
Turn a problem into a Project.
“My project is to make myself supremely attractive (such a magnetically, charismatic person) so that I never worry about women again because I will have so many suitors.”
“My project is to create residual streams of income so I never have to worry about being in debt.”
“My project is to make my business run on auto-pilot so I never have to become a work-a-holic.”
“My project is to make myself super healthy and fit.”
1. Make it a Project not a problem.
2. Create the vision. Rather than dwelling on the problems, you ask yourself what would the world look like so that I will never have this problem again. And you focus on that vision. Listen to the inspirations.
3. You pursue that vision aggressively and joyfully.
4. Monitor Your State of Flow
You never loose your focus on the vision.
“I learned I was not, as most African Americans believed, the victim of my circumstances but the master of them.” -Legson Kayira (a truly inspiring story)
I’m really liking these lessons. It’s in full agreement with the lessons in the phone booth. “You are not a problem to be fixed.” “Instead begin to see yourself as success waiting to happen.” “using imagination to change who you are, because it’s all imagination anyways.”
I totally believe in the power of holding visions, in fact I believe it was me holding visions that attracted all the things I needed into my life. The mentors, the book, the circumstances, me living with roommates that are great with women, me living in a college party atmosphere with abundance of opportunity to socialize and meet new women, I have seen crazy shit happen in my reality as a result of visualizing. It’s as if the entire universe begins to work for you.
Holding a vision is great, but as a result I’ve attracted a bunch of lessons on “releasing”. Vishen makes a point to not focus on the “problems”, I agree. So part of the solution is to finally see parts of yourself that you’ve been hiding from. Sometimes this process is brutal. You may have to welcome A LOT of uncomfortable feelings so that you can finally begin to let go of these things… That’s what I have been coming to conclude these days, your not gonna “get there” by continuously ignoring your “issues” and imagining positive things all day. Because the shadow side of you will continue to sabotage your good intentions…
I just wanna make this point really clear, because I don’t want you to fall into the trap of “just stay jolly happy bliss” notion and feel like that’s all you have to do. I’ve tried positive thinking all day long, so I can attract “the things” I want in life. This never worked. It was a path of frustration, and wishful thinking. Constantly feeling like I’m lacking things in my life.
You have to do the real work, and change the inner you so the things you want are a natural byproduct of your being. you being The man, & being great. And the things you think you want will never bring you the qualities you are after, the confidence, happiness, or fulfillment. Rhett Bise made this fact very clear in his book, and it was like the most sobering, greatest thing I’ve ever heard.
So I’ve been dedicating hours and hours to the releasing process. Doing EFT, and other release tools from the phone booth. And even combining some of the techniques with EFT. Feeling the tension, talk to the tension, tell it I love and accept it, breath into it, as I tap, while continuously breathing deeply to move the energy. Whatever I’m doing it’s been working. I have literally passed out while doing these practices, because the emotions running through my nervous system drains me. And step by step I’m reclaiming my natural charisma.
Things just happen in the outer world… a girl I haven’t talk to in months calls me, another girl sends me a message on facebook, my guy friends as well, I run into people I know and they want to hang out. and just little things like that.
I also want to share with you two videos on EFT I found super helpful.
This ones about how to do an EFT in the most simple way possible.
This ones about how EFT works to change your world with Law of Attraction.